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Update on Natalia - August 2003

Hello everyone,

It has been almost three years since we received our Angel from heaven. She has brought many blessings as all these special needs children do. We have grown in many areas...and we are grateful for each blessed day we have together.

Natalia had a great day today. She is beginning to walk better with the walker at her therapy sessions and she seems more alert than ever. She will begin school in September with a local public school in their special needs room. I am very happy with the new teacher and know Natalia will do well in this new daily environment.

Most mornings I am greeted with a loud Ma-Ma until I get her out of the crib.
Natalia is not talking consistently but communicates with us in her way and we can usually figure out what she wants. She makes appropriate sounds at times when we sing her favorite songs and she mimics some words from time to time, but nothing real consistent. With her double looks, and her way of communicating, she makes us all laugh many times a day.

Natalia is still G-tube fed each hour. Her fundoplication has slipped so the hourly feedings seem to help with the reflux problem. She will be going into surgery again in September to close the gum area near the teeth. Oral feedings were a problem with nasal infections and we are hoping this surgery will allow us to begin oral feedings again. Please help us pray all this goes well as I am told if she is to talk, she needs to be feeding orally first.

She continues to be very oral... Everything gets the tongue and chew test. I am amazed at how healthy she is with all the germs she collects each day. We do tackle minor nasal, eye, ear, and intestinal infections from time to time but we are always on top of these little infections and she is relatively healthy for a special needs child.

Natalia can hear but exactly how much is still in question. Her ABR tests show that her brain is responding but the specific hearing tests have not been real clear for this mom. We recently had her ear tubes replaced (May) and I believe one is out again. So I am guessing she is not hearing too well in that ear until we replace the tube...At present, she appears to respond as we play with her so I am sure she hears something.

Her visual and developmental issues do hold her back a bit but I am very happy with the changes I see each week. Having had cataracts at birth, we are still using contacts each day and glasses when her eyes are irritated. She does well with the prescriptions. She seems happy enough without them too. She is able to somehow see shapes and when reaching for toys she can usually can find them although she doesn't have the depth perception, so it can be a bit comical.

Natalia can roll and sit up across the room if she wants something. She does not like putting pressure on her hands, elbows and shoulders for an extended period of time. When in the crawl position, she will quickly push herself to a sitting position. Then eventually falls back to begin it all over again. She is not crawling yet but is taking steps when held upright by the arms.

She has a cute personality coming through. She smiles when happy and has a very cute pouty lip when unhappy. She will shake her head no when she is not pleased with something we are doing and uses her hands to quickly push us away if we are bugging her. One area I am extremely greatful for is her ability to calm herself. She hummms herself to sleep if I am not nearby to sing. If put down in her crib or floor in protest, she will lift her legs up and down (in beautiful leg lift form) till she wears herself out. She has great abdominal muscles!

She seems to be about 8 to 12 months cognitively. In reading a recent article through the SOFT organization, I was surprised to read that there was a Trisomy 13 who reach 32 and another 36 years. Although that is rare. The article stated that most of these children average 10 years and their cognitive level is around 12 months. UG! Well, reading all this set me back a few moments, but I have great faith that Natalia will walk and talk in some way. So we will continue to work each day with her and I will give you updates and we'll see just how far this little Siegle can fly....

We have been blessed to have two LVN's who help us with Natalia's care. I am able to get two good nights of sleep each week with one helping at nights and the other helping during 3 to 4 of the days each week. The many therapy sessions and sick or follow up appointments keep our schedule full. We are so blessed to have the extra help. It is with their love and help that Natalia is thriving. God has been good to us and I am so thankful that we have been blessed with her for three years.

Thank you all for your prayers and support over the years.
God Bless You all,
ThereseAnn


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